Getting to know international students

Whether you've moved to university from another country or just down the road, making friends is an essential part of the student experience. 

Starting university and living in student accommodation is a great opportunity for you to get to know people from across the globe! 

Here are a few tips to help you get to know other students from different cultures:

1. Simply ask questions

You can't get to know anyone without asking some questions. People from different cultures have lots of different traditions, norms, holidays and much more. Asking each other questions can help them get to know you better, learn more about life in the UK whilst sharing information about their home country. Some great starting questions are:

• What is your name? What name would you like to be addressed by?
• What is your local language? Is there anything you could teach me?
• Do you have a big family?
• What is the most celebrated holiday in your country?
• What advice would you give someone travelling to your country?
• What are the things that your country is known for?
• Were you nervous to move to the UK?
• Is there anything that you would like to know about life in the UK?

Making friends with anyone requires effort and time, so don't be afraid to ask questions about each other's music taste, favourite cuisine, TV shows and movies and so on. This is a great way to find common ground and celebrate your mutual interests. 

2. Share your favourite food

In many cultures, food is one of the most celebrated aspects in life. Cooking for someone can show that you care and can be seen a symbol of love. Sharing your favourite or traditional food with each other can help you get to know one another better and can give you a glimpse into their life. 

Whether you take each other to your favourite restaurants, order in or cook a meal together, food is a great way to celebrate culture (and travel with your tastebuds). 

3. Take a language class

Moving to a new country can be challenging, from adapting to a different lifestyle to learning a completely new language. Sometimes, international students can find it difficult to communicate naturally with UK students so it might be a good idea to take a few language classes to (at least) learn the basics and make their transition a little easier. Downloading Duolingo or other language apps is a good way to get started. 

Communicating with each other - even when you both don't fully understand each other - can even be a quicker way of picking up on certain words, phrases, meanings and nuances. Your international friend will definitely appreciate the effort!  

4. Remember that strong bonds take time

Don't be disheartened if you don't become best friends straight away. Remember that moving to the UK is a huge leap and can be really nerve-wracking. Plus, everyone adapts at different paces so make sure you give them the space and time they need. 

As long as you show that you're there for each other and keep making the effort, you're sure to develop a strong bond if you get along. Earning trust takes time. 

Making friends is an important part of the university experience...so what are you waiting for? Get out there and start getting to know everyone!